BLESSING SUNDAY.

A MAN WHO DOES NOT APPRECIATE HIMSELF CANNOT APPRECIATE OTHERS...

I have written for 7days consecutively.
I started with penning my thoughts down in my diary before typing it into my phone. (Yes I blog with my phone, is my small computer.)
But now, I just type straight into my blog and is called "flow" and today I will be writing on self appreciation.
Self esteem or appreciation Is a personal evaluation of one's self worth.
Many at times we become so bitter at what life throws at us, we hate ourselves for not accomplishing our goals like our friends do, most of the times we compare ourselves to others, most of the times we don't even show ourselves love, the bitterness in us is so massive that it swallows the whole of us.
But no! Learn to love yourself, learn to appreciate your efforts. You are able to go for a contract even if you didn't get it, but there are people who didn't even hear of it.
You are able to at least trek back and you are so bitter at your self because you don't have a range, but there is someone who is wishing he could be able to walk, who is wishing he does not have to wait for someone to push him around.
You are so bitter that your friends earn more than you, but you don't know how much the toil every day and night and bury themselves in their jobs to get their pay. Their job literally owns them, they are like prisoners to the job, the job does not even know their name only their SAP no. But you are able to combine your small job with your little small scale business and still get enough rest.
You are so bitter that you loved someone who did not love you back, but there are people who wished they were able to love someone.
You are bitter to yourself for not having all the pleasures of life, but people who have it have you taken a vacation to their home? They also wish the have one thing you have.
No human is complete, we all need ourselves in one way or the other.
Drop the bitterness, be appreciative for life, many are in the grave. Appreciate your effort in every phase of life. You can do better in the next.
Confront the dark part of yourself and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. 
Wanting to be someone else is the waste of the person you are. 

How do you appreciate who you are?

i have picked out points from wiki how on how to appreciate who you are.

• Understand the difference between self love and self absorption.
• Be yourself.
• Remember you have much to offer others.
• Appreciate what you have already.
• Be confident in your decisions and how you reach out to people.
• Look in the mirror and speak positivity to yourself 
• Learn to love yourself so others could love you in return.

Remember the man who does not appreciate himself cannot appreciate others.

Drop the bitterness now .

- LIETTY KAMAH.